Change your thoughts—Change your life!

11月马上就要过去,进入12月后,2010年即将结束。

心里怕怕的,看看别人的小孩子转眼从BB变成小伙儿。。

心里的恐惧顿时无线放大,膨胀到我不敢去想!

听说过这样的话:什么年纪干什么事!

看看自己,我是在做我应该做的事情么?

想想自己的大方向!

为什么那么容易被disattracted?

西班牙语!西语国家!

 

A去PP已经3天多了。。。有些想他!

还好没有达到难过的地步。。。呵呵。。。

没有时间的沉淀,果真是不一样的!

 

知道她跟他有点情况后,

我心里莫名的不高兴!

确实也不关我的事情就对了!

真的不知道是为什么~~~

越来越不了解自己。。。

Change your thoughts, change your life!

 

本周我要做的事情:

  • 西语0.5H/Day
  • 简单写Service Draft
  • Make Calendar for Andrew
  • Go swimming on Tue and Friday or Sat

How To Change Your Life In 21 Days

1. Take 100% Responsibility

Within these 21 days, don’t make any excuses, don’t blame and don’t complain. Take 100% responsibility. This is the first thing that you must do to change your life. For things to change, you must first change yourself. Always remember this, nothing will change if you’re not changing.

2. Focus In Where You Are Heading

You must live a directed life in these 21 days. So know what you really want to achieve in your life, write down your goals once every morning after you woke up and once every night before you sleep. You need to sink the idea of your goals into your subconscious mind and this is what you’ll have to do.

3. Motivate, Learn and Improve

One of the reasons for causing inaction is because of the lack of motivation. If you don’t have the motivation, you’ll never take action. You need motivation to keep you going in your life, to achieve what you want, to earn more, to be a millionaire and to be successful.

4. Take Action Everyday

Once you’ve your goals written down and your action plan created. It is time for you to follow through your action plan and achieve your goals. So take at least 3 action steps everyday for the following 21 days. You MUST do this. No matter how busy you are, take 3 actions even if you need to sleep late.

Success is about getting things done. The more things you get them done, the more results you’ll receive. This is what separates a successful person from an ordinary one. Every successful person is a go-getter. So learn to be a go-getter in the following 21 days.

This is the 21-day challenge for you. I hope that you can follow through and be who you are supposed to be. Everyone wants to be rich, everyone wants to be a millionaire and everyone wants to live a successful life. If you are serious in achieving what you really want in your life, live these 21 days with 100% commitment.

 

My Goal: Speak Spanish!

Things learned from applying for Spanish Visa

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  • Preparation Stage

买了西班牙往返的机票是在一个月前,淡定了很久。。。呵呵

菲律宾之行回来后一周多后,就开始了各种繁复的材料准备

各种文件复印,证明,信件,行程,财务信息,等等各种。。。

准备的过程是今天一点,明天一片的,参考各种经验分享。。。

感觉也不是那么困难。。呵呵呵。。。

Lesson 1: The long travel comes from the first step. //千里之行始于足下。

  • Hand out Material Stage

拖拖拉拉的终于吧材料准备齐全,发了预约信后

在0723一大早去了三里屯,西班牙大使馆

根据保安的提示,把资料按顺序排好后,

去交钱,面签。。。

收钱的Spanierd一看就是个垃圾。。。SB嗷嗷的。。。

面试我的相对而言比较帅,看起来比较认真工作的样子。。

但是好像也不是很友好。。。:(… ppl with attitude are so annoying!

当然事情不能那么顺利。。。不然就不叫人生了。。。

我的活期储蓄记录中,由于留下的存款过少,被要求重新补充新的材料

证明经济实力。。。即使我另一个证明里说明我有5万元的存款。。。

问了需要多少在里面的时候,来了一句多少都行。。。这是什么废话!

无奈,心想去最近的招行赶紧再打印出一份存款证明什么的,结果没带卡!

只好作罢,打道回府。。。周一再去一次!来回2个小时的时间啊。。。

只怪自己准备的不够充分。。。太轻视了。。。唉。。。

Lesson 2: Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity。// 当准备遇到机遇时,幸运就降临了。

  • 2nd Time around

周一一大早,起床洗漱完毕直奔地铁。。。

到了使馆进了侧门,我说了句你好

一个看起来很贱的年轻女淫凶凶的说:等下。。。

MLGB的。。。后来等了3-4分钟以后,

她才来给我搞签证。。。然后来了一个西班牙女。。。

挺高的。。。长得一般,但是看起来胸器了得。。LOL

这女淫就开始漏贱样儿了。。。微笑的对那西女说话

然后给她拿东西,放下我的资料,不搭理我了。。。

好在时间不长。。。不然我这破脾气。。。她就要被骂了

我的签证也就彻底没戏啦。。。哈哈哈

联想到,平时我出去玩,貌似我也比较怠慢中国同胞。。。

这里反省下。。。不过我觉得我们的状态不一样。。。

不是因为是中国人我怠慢,而是我不认识。。。

跟外国朋友比较容易交流,毕竟人家的文化思想较开放些。。。

Lesson 3: Don’t treat others the way you don’t want to be treated. //己所不欲,勿施于人。

周四我的签证结果就下来咯!Finger Crossed 哦!!! 😀

后记:

周四没有去大使馆看签证,因为接到电话说,要给我面试。哈哈哈。。。无奈。。。

第二周周二去了,坦坦荡荡的平平安安稳稳当当的得到了西班牙的签证!

yahooooooooooooooooo 西班牙我们十月见咯!:)

The True Success!

 

John wooden, ESPN ranks him as the greatest coach of all time, across all sports.

One that sums up his ideology quite well is his often-quoted definition of success: "Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best that you are capable of becoming."

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与学生Morris上课的时候,讨论了我心中的True Success:1. 开心的生活;2. 带给周围的人快乐;3. 平凡但是幸福的家庭

也许在男生的眼里,这个true success有些Emotional。。。虽然我是Rational Type! 但是这是我期望的,想要的,应该追求的!哈哈哈。。。

Boyish

贴一个前段时间做的测试,呵呵,自我感觉还真是很准!我是很Boyish啦。。。。

哈哈。。。I sometimes do not understand woman even like myself…. especially when I have periods! LOL

———————————————Cutting Line————————————————————

I will be very busy start from next week! I hope I will be able to juggling well with everything happening together! Quite excited about it… wa ha ha ha…

JuLy 1/ Half of 2010

Time flies once you know

you should cherish youth

Time slips away when you are

enjoy life

Time goes fast while you are

focused and busy with what you do

Half of 2010 has flew away…

Look back… I have done quite

a lot of travelling which I am very happy about

– Shanghai for 2010 NY

– Phuket. Thailand for CNY

– Pingyao old city town for a weekend

– Manila/Cebu/Bohol in Philippines for Dragon boat festival…

Me vuelve loco de viejas! Y quiero viajar mas!

My next trip will be SPAIN!

YAY! ha ha…

I will be so poor but who cares about money!

I only live once, I am going to enjoy my life

and see/experience as much I can!

Save money to pay for my travel!

Aprender Espanol!

About love and relationship,

2.5 months to go!

I hope yuanfen and our effort will bring us together.

Perhaps I should go to lama temple again. 🙂

Hope everything goes well for the rest of the 2010!

Jia You!

A mighty flame follows a tiny spark!

 

  • Viktor Frankl

Some Notes taking from DR.Viktor Frankl`s speech, search for meaning:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD1512_XJEw

His best book  Man’s Search for Meaning: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man%27s_Search_for_Meaning

On Douban: Man’s Search for Meaning

  • “Challenging the meaning of life is the truest expression of the state of being human. “
  • ” If we take Man as he his we make him worse but if we take man as he should be, we make him capable of becoming what he can be.
  • “Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!”

Touching Spirit!

今天Adrian给我一个人的名字:David Goggins

以我对他的了解,我知道肯定又是一个运动疯子

在谷歌上一搜就出来他的主页了

打开看了他的自我介绍,总结一个字!

感动!感动!感动!

引入几句我觉得很棒的话!

I’m nobody special.  Let’s be perfectly clear…I don’t like to run. I don’t like to swim. I don’t like to bike. I do this to raise money for the children of soldiers killed in combat.  

Like I said, I don’t like running. I don’t like biking. I don’t like swimming. I do it to raise money. But, now that I’m in this sport I want to see how far I can push myself. What makes me tick is that pain you feel when you do these ultramarathons. I can take a lot of pain.
 
Show no weakness

还是很感动!呵呵。。。

回家跑步去,可惜我不能raise money! 😦

Newspaper DATE

喜欢看爱早报,

真的是每天10分钟

比早餐还重要!

 

2009年兵荒马乱

2009年底更是让大家纠结

2010年将是中国互联网——局域网的开始

2010年将是大家以翻墙为乐的开始!

可是2010我们还是要乐观的努力!

 

今天很开心的发现我的博客又可以上去了!

Y02不要让我搬家哦!嘿嘿!

Night Life

对,今天我想说夜生活!

来到北京3年,我的人生变了

我的夜生活那更加是多姿多彩了!

哈哈。。。

 

无知的会说:你变坏咯!

开放的会说:恭喜你!

保守的会说:保护自己!

而我想说:我是一个独立的不以别人意志为转移的人!我想让我的人生放大到极限。我想活出色卡上你能找到的所有颜色。我想品尝酸甜苦辣,人生百味!

 

我想,我就会努力去做!在30而立之前,我想要的还很多。

在EQ英语的博里今天写了New Year Resolution.

我要想想2010的 NYR!