Travellers vs Tourists

昨晚的海底捞饭局,让我空前的感觉的tour guy的痛苦

虽然是吃我最喜欢的火锅,可是味道却也不尽然了。

一行12个人,5个德国人,1个意大利人,1个加拿大人,1个爱尔兰人,2个瑞典人,1个比利时人,1个西班牙人,1个中国人

12个人中,有2个人在中国居住超过半年,5个旅行者,3个暂住者,还有2个拜访者

我们的区别通过我的标签,在这个餐桌上体现出明显不同的特征

长居者就不说了。。。作为我,去就是因为我热爱这里

3个暂住者,表现出80%-90%的unpleasant

2个拜访者,因为性格不同表现出极大反差,一个pleasant, 一个整顿饭没怎么说话

5个旅行者,表现出极大地Passion! 我必须用这个词!

这次的饭局后,我强烈的鄙视那些tourists! 热爱旅行者!

发誓,要是我一番好意带你去吃饭,你complaint!

那么我就一定一定大声的对你笑着说: Get the fuck out of here! You fucking stupid Ass face!

这个世界上,我相信有好人,善良的人,

我也想相信有无数的傻逼!没有心的人!

对不起,老子没时间跟你们玩儿!也没有什么中国热情对你们!

最后还是要说一句: 愿这个世界充满爱!

娃哈哈哈哈。。。

Couch surfing meetingssss

I have been doing a lot of cs meeting recently

Really feel very nice about this idea.

went for dumplings last night with 2 swedish uni students

and my lovely guest who I am hosting from Spain.

I was starving…so I decided to order a lot of food… 😀

It came with really a huge amount of food in the end.

Luckily, and surprisingly, we finished all…

I felt like I achieved  a big success!

Fernando, and the other 2 were keeping saying best food.

I do believe the 2 swedish tho… they had a lot…hahah

Apparently they hasnt had pleasant meal since they came here

I guess it is hard for them to order if you dont speak local  language.

I certainly experienced that when I was in Vietnam and Thailand, Malaysia.

But I thought it was quite fun anyways…

After dinner we went to drum and bell tower to chill out on the roof

Had a great time about countries and politics even I am very ignorant about both…

At least I learned something.

There is no celebration for national holiday in sweden.

If you say you love ur country or u r a patriotic person

then ppl will think you are a racist…he he…hmmm

HOT POT tonight!

Go after what you want! Dont hesitate!

故事1:

周四凌晨5点多,电话响起,

我迷糊的痛恨自己没有把闹钟关掉!

后来惊现原来是久违的朋友,

接起电话,清晰的闻到酒精气息

那边近乎呼喊的一句:Angela, I love you!

我顿时睡意全无!

说喜欢我,我还可以接受,这爱字!

沉重,沉重!负担不起!

于是我的第一反应就是: Are you OK, XX?

第二句话回神问:What are you talking about?

那边可以听到急促的喘息,继续:Angela, I love you!

“Dont Talk, let me speak, I am drunk but I know what I am talking about…”

后面的也都是相关的话:什么你不知道我爱你,我多喜欢你。。。

我无语,尴尬的处在那里!

找不到应该说什么了。。。同时觉得非常愧疚。

因为,我本应该去参加他的Leaving party!

但是因为太远,而且前一天我们刚见过面,所以就作罢。

没想到会激起如此的“爱意”!

挂了电话,心里不是滋味,不知道是因为我没去见他愧疚,因为说了去。

还是因为我不能“爱”他,而对不起。

可是问题是:我从来没有感受到那份爱!

凭什么我要觉得羞愧?!

故事2:

想起初中相识的好友柯,

从初中到高中再到大学,

他总是在假期里出现在我家,

找我玩,给我买好吃的。。。

在我眼里,他是我的大哥哥

帮助我,呵护我

可是慢慢的,大学毕业以后

某天,他告诉我:我爱你!

我惊栗!不知道如何是好!

当时已经有男友了。。。

给他解释我们之间的友谊,我的立场等等

。。。。。。

结果是:我会坚持,我等你!

之后就是让我在办公室尴尬的玫瑰花

各种小礼物。。。等等攻势

我不知道如何回报。。。。。。

总结:

趁我们还年轻,抓紧做你想要做的事情!

岁月不待人!

一如台湾女娃杨雅静的100人接吻!

WHY not?!

Teacher`s Day

今天是9月10日,中国的教师节,祝天下所有的老师教师节快乐!

(Especially me! H@!)

送给世界上所有的老师一首诗作为礼物:

If I Could Teach You, Teacher (by Joanna Fuchs)


If I could teach you, teacher,
I`d teach you how much more
You have accomplished
Than you think you have.
I`d show you the seeds
You planted years ago
That are now coming into bloom.
I`d reveal to you the young minds
That have expanded under your care,
The hearts that are serving others
Because they had you as a role model.
If I could teach you, teacher,
I`d show you the positive effect
You have had on me and my life.
Your homework is
To know your value to the world,
To acknowledge it, to believe it.
Thank you, teacher.

借助教师节这样的一个感恩的日子,我们一起分享下与老师的记忆:

Describe a teacher who you admire the most.

[分享] 雅思口语高分公式:Describe People

The teacher who I admire the most is my English teacher Anna who taught me English in the first 2 years of high school.

She is the kindest and most understanding teacher I have ever met. She is a bit short with long hair, and she always dresses very neatly and simply. She has a very outgoing and open minded personality.  Whenever I took her classes, I felt very relaxed because she always told a lot of interesting and adventurous stories in English. I was so into her stories that I forgot I was learning English.

In her class she told us that if anyone felt so sleepy that they couldn’t follow her, they were allowed to take a 10 to 15 minute nap and then wake up and keep studying. Personally, I thought that was tremendously understanding and touching. She was also a very sweet teacher who taught us not only how to pass the exam but also to understand the culture behind the language. She bought everyone Christmas gifts to celebrate Christmas Eve with us. I can never forget what she did for us as our teacher.  I saw her more as a friend than a teacher. I hope that one day I can give her a hug and say ‘thank you’ again.

分享你与老师的故事给我们,发送到service@EQEnglish.com, 会有EQ英语送出的惊喜哦!

相关链接:

中国教师节的由来

A teacher`s story

Teachers`day all over the world

Money is not the most important!

早晨醒来,视觉眩晕!

怎么回事?以为是没有醒来的原因。

可是洗澡的时候,差点厥过去!

大脑的某个部分像是受损了。。。

连续几天6点起来!。。。╮(╯▽╰)╭FanTong!

猛然间意识到,

面对选择是一件很苦恼的事情!

做出选择更加的难!

但是我还是决定跟着我的心走!

哈哈。。。好好休息了一晚

今天精神真的好很多很多呢

想事情也清楚了好多!

嘿嘿。。。

所以本人工作一定要找对兴趣,喜好

然后认真去做。。。

钱不是最重要的现在!

插播笔记摘抄:

Ad Rotator 用途
当博客上广告较多时,可以使用Ad Rotator在同一位置显示一些不同的广告,广告的显示是随机的,可以很好地实现广告的轮换。具体效果可以见本站页面顶部的468*60 Banner。我设置了四个广告图片,每当打开一个页面时,AdRotator 就会从这四个广告中随机抽取一个,然后显示出来。我现在设置的图片有两个是内部广告,四个图片随机显示,可以避免页面广告的单一。

Ad Rotator 安装:
Ad Rotator的安装还是比较简单,就像安装其他插件一样,将下载的文件上传到plugin目录下,然后在后台激活。

Ad Rotator 使用:

  • 首先,用记事本建立一个文本文件,在文件中加入广告代码。注意每一个广告的代码就是一行,四个广告也就是四行代码(记事本的“格式”菜单中不选中“自动换行”)。然后保存文件,记住文件名如adsbanner
  • 其次,将这个文本文件上传到wp-content目录下面。
  • 最后,在需要显示广告的地方添加代码<?php echo getad(’Ad File Name’); ?>,Ad File Name就是文本文件的文件名,如果文件名是adsbanner,那么需要添加的代码就是<?php echo getad(’adsbanner’); ?>

A Relaxing fast weekend

2009年的9月,第一个周末就这样过去了。。。

周五晚上回家,好好休息了一下。。。

看看电影。。。躺在床上,很舒服。

被可爱的饭桶折腾了3天,严重的睡眠不足!

周六早晨。。。继续被她虐待

7点钟不到,就跟她出去溜达。。。

我的命苦哦。。。

按照约定,公司大家驱车去了怀柔

吃虹鳟鱼。。。呵呵。。。

还上演一幕“捡栗子”,而后被80老太追骂的事件

幸好老太80,圣体仍然硬朗!没追出什么毛病

阿弥陀佛。。。善哉善哉

周日,看一天的攻略

跟Julia吃午饭,喝咖啡。。。

海聊了一个下午!

很有意思!

1)德国人害怕被人骂纳粹!

2)德国有很多Turkish!

跟猴子在skype上对骂一阵。。。

舒服的周末就这么过去了。。。

Free and Free

《免费》克里斯·安德森新著:好书过眼

将欲取之,必先予之,古老的中国智慧在互联网免费经济学时代仍然适用。《连线》杂志主编安德森的新作《免费(Free:The Future of a Radical Price)》将在中国上市,该书始于《长尾理论》没有讨论完的话题。他在书中说:“如今确实存在免费的午餐……上世纪的免费是有效的市场营销策略,而本世纪的免费则是一种全新的经济模式”

看了这篇文章,深受启发,情移至EQ的市场运作。。。我们仍然还停留在免费的市场营销阶段,而不是免费的市场经济运作下。。。

回想之前我的想法,我还是有些小得意的。。。嘿嘿。。。

要卖的是1对1的外教语言服务,而用户可以得到的免费实惠就是内容与平台。如此一来,就应该全面敞开学习预习的部分,好好改进产品设计流程,重新定位我们的市场出发点。

。。。。。。

可是执行效力与效率都好不靠谱。

Who gets to decide what I want?

转个喜欢的博文。。。

真的很喜欢Seth的博文,总能引起我的思考!

Who gets to decide what you want?

When George Washington was a teenager, did he really, really, really want a car?
Unlikely.
In order to want something, you probably need to know it exists. But my guess is that it surely helps if you’ve been marketed to.
One definition of happiness is wanting the things you’re likely to get (or, conversely, not wanting the unattainable). One definition of marketing is persuading the world it wants what you have, regardless of whether they can afford it or not.
We don’t hesitate to motivate employees by marketing them the benefits of being promoted, even if they all can’t possibly get this. We don’t hesitate to tease kids by marketing every conceivable unattainable Christmas gift at them, relentlessly.
Teenage girls are taught what to want by magazines and by peers.
Patients are taught what to want by doctors who prescribe new tests. And doctors are taught to do that by lawyers eager to sue if they don’t. Imagine going home and saying, “the doctor wanted to give me another test, but I said no…”
This cycle of assigned wants is going to get a lot worse before it gets better. The game theory demands it.
And so, once again it seems to come down to a personal decision. If you decide what you want (instead of letting someone else decide for you) perhaps you could choose the things that would actually bring you and your loved ones the satisfaction you can live with.

Another new stage of life

记得有句话叫:What goes around comes around.

现在多少感觉自己的人生多少有这句话的味道了。。。

一早晨,恍惚的厉害,到了机场更加头痛。。。

猴子走了,我的生活又要开始新的一章了。。。呵呵

有难过,有不舍,但是也许是有心理准备,一切正常

在离别的一刻,分手的一刻,因为当时的情景

哭了,可是后脑勺在想,下一刻还要继续往前走

心里多少还是看到positive的一面的 🙂

我可以有很多很多寂寞的时间。。。

记得大学的时候,常常自己去图书馆

告诉自己,寂寞也是一种美丽

因为寂寞,可以感受很多东西,可以思考很多东西

下午觉得精神好了很多,

不晓得是不是茶在起作用

今晚一定要完成10-1旅行计划!

新的生活开始咯!

加油加油fighting laaaaaaaaaaaa